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Discovering the Power of Christian Affirmations in Our Marriage: A Personal Journey

Writer's picture: Foluke HoustonFoluke Houston

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As someone who embraced the beautiful covenant of marriage later in life, the transition from solitude to constant companionship was a journey filled with unexpected challenges and blessings. My story is a testament to the transformative power of God's Word, the strength found in prayer, and the clarity brought through journaling. It's a narrative I share with a heart full of gratitude and the hope that it might inspire others navigating their own marital journeys.


 

The Challenge of New Beginnings

Marrying late in life presented a unique set of challenges. The comfort of my own space, the rhythm of solo living, and the independence of making decisions without considering another person were deeply ingrained in me. Then came marriage, and with it, the beautiful yet daunting task of weaving my life with someone else's. My husband, equally accustomed to his independence, faced the same struggle. The adjustment was real, and it demanded patience, understanding, and an unwavering commitment to our union.

The Role of Biblical Affirmations

In the midst of our adjustment, we discovered the power of biblical affirmations. Speaking God's Word over our marriage became a beacon of light guiding us through the uncertainties of this new chapter. These affirmations, rooted in Scripture, became our declaration of faith, hope, and love. They reminded us of God's promises and His design for marriage, serving as a foundation upon which we could build a relationship that reflected His love.

Praying Out Loud Together

Prayer took on a new dimension as we began to pray out loud together. This intimate act of worship not only drew us closer to God but to each other. It was in these moments of shared vulnerability before the Lord that we found strength, understanding, and the grace to embrace our new life together. Praying out loud became our spiritual lifeline, a daily practice that nurtured our souls and our bond.


 

Christian Affirmations for Your Marriage

In the spirit of sharing, here are some Christian affirmations you can speak over your marriage. Let these words anchor your relationship in God's truth and love:

  1. We are a cord of three strands, not easily broken (Ecclesiastes 4:12).

  2. God is at the center of our marriage, and His love never fails (1 Corinthians 13:8).

  3. We are patient and kind to each other, reflecting the love of Christ (1 Corinthians 13:4).

  4. We forgive as the Lord forgave us, building our marriage on the foundation of grace (Colossians 3:13).

  5. We are committed to love and respect each other, honoring God in our union (Ephesians 5:33).

 

United in Love Campaign

Our journey of discovery and growth through biblical affirmations, prayer, and journaling aligns beautifully with AffirmMePlease's current United in Love Campaign. This month-long celebration in March is a call to celebrate love and marriage through the powerful expression of Christian faith. It's an invitation to couples everywhere to strengthen their bond by anchoring their relationship in God's Word and love.

As we continue to navigate the waters of marriage, we do so with hearts full of gratitude for the tools God has provided us. Biblical affirmations, prayer, and journaling are not just practices but lifelines that keep our marriage anchored in love, faith, and hope. May your journey be equally blessed and transformative as you apply these principles in your own marriage.

In Closing

Remember, it's never too late to start speaking life into your marriage through the power of God's Word. Whether you're newlyweds or veterans in marriage, the timeless truth of Scripture and the intimacy of prayer can rejuvenate and sustain your relationship. Join us in the United in Love Campaign and let's celebrate the gift of marriage, united in love and faith.




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